"Individual commitment to a group effort -- that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work."

~ Vince Lombardi ~

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Building Community Support for Africa’s Orphans and Vulnerable Children

Who Will Look After Our Children?

When parents die, children lose not only their families, but also their childhoods. More than 95 percent of the world’s orphans and 80 percent of the women living with AIDS are in Sub-Saharan Africa. Time magazine referred to the three Southern African countries — Botswana, South Africa, and Zimbabwe — as "the heart of the heart of the epidemic." And the impact on children is nearing catastrophic proportions.

Botswana, with the highest per capita gross domestic product, has the highest adult infection rate (36 percent). Parents are dying at a pace that stuns families and leaves children not only unable to raise themselves, but other children. Orphaned households headed by children are increasing in every country in the region, tearing apart the extended family system that for centuries has been Africa’s primary social safety net.

The Zimbabwe National AIDS Council Co-ordination Program estimates that one in every six children is an orphan. While the Zimbabwean government has created some orphanage institutions, these have only managed to shelter a few. They have fallen far short of promoting the children’s well-being with regard to development. Rural areas, while hardest hit, are the last to receive support.

Throughout the region there are emerging examples of community efforts for AIDS orphanages run by volunteer mothers and integrated within the community for the children’s survival, well-being, and socio-cultural development. While isolated examples exist, the challenge is the development of these local organizations into viable, self-sustaining community entities that fully address the needs of orphaned children and youth on a broad scale.

"AIDS Orphans: Community Support for Care and Development" will provide support in three countries — Botswana, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. It will identify local models, help strengthen and link them to other local and national efforts, and heighten policy attention to this pressing social issue.

W.K. Kellogg himself recognized the importance of helping children during times of cataclysmic change in their lives. After World War II, he generously provided support to war orphans throughout Europe as part of essential reconstruction efforts.

Similar programs to help youth not just survive but develop into healthy, productive adults have been a hallmark of Foundation programming since 1930. In 2005, the Foundation honored that legacy in its work with southern African communities that have been ravaged by AIDS. This effort echoes Mr. Kellogg’s desire to help children in times of crisis and to help communities take responsibility for these needs.

AIDS Orphans: Community Support for Care and Development will highlight the importance of community action on behalf of AIDS orphans and contribute to the region’s greatest disaster. The southern African program will:

  • Identify effective community-based organizations providing relief and development support to AIDS orphans.
  • Help these organizations sustain themselves and expand by example to others.
  • Prioritize Botswana, Zimbabwe, and the South Africa program; and
  • Target orphaned children and youth, child-headed households, community based caregivers, and policymakers at the national, provincial, and local levels.
http://www.soschildrensvillages.org.uk/aids-africa/projects-by-country/aids-botswana-africa.htm

Monday, October 5, 2009

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. If you or someone you know needs help, you can call 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) or 1-800-799-SAFE.


What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner.

Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together or who are dating. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels.

You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:
  •  Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
  • Does not trust you and acts jealous or possessive.
  • Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
  • Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with.
  • Does not want you to work.
  • Controls finances or refuses to share money.
  • Punishes you by withholding affection.
  • Expects you to ask permission.
  • Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
  • Humiliates you in any way. 
You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever:
  • Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.).
  • Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked you.
  • Abandoned you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
  • Scared you by driving recklessly.
  • Used a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
  • Forced you to leave your home.
  • Trapped you in your home or kept you from leaving.
  • Prevented you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
  • Hurt your children.
  • Used physical force in sexual situations.
You may be in a sexually abusive relationship if your partner:
  • Views women as objects and believes in rigid gender roles.
  • Accuses you of cheating or is often jealous of your outside relationships.
  • Wants you to dress in a sexual way.
  • Insults you in sexual ways or calls you sexual names.
  • Has ever forced or manipulated you into to having sex or performing sexual acts.
  • Held you down during sex.
  • Demanded sex when you were sick, tired or after beating you.
  • Hurt you with weapons or objects during sex.
  • Involved other people in sexual activities with you.
  • Ignored your feelings regarding sex.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Help Prevent Child Abuse - Free Training

Darkness 2 Light

A web-based sexual abuse prevention training program designed to educate adults to prevent, recognize, and react responsibly to child sexual abuse. The training equips and empowers adults to keep children safe.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Soldiers Angels



As a volunteer-led nonprofit with 200,000 volunteers, 30 different teams support all branches of the U.S. Armed Forces. Through special projects, dedicated teams and individuals supporting our troops, make a visible difference in the lives of our service members and their families.

Learn how you can help make a difference today!

Citizen Soldiers

3 Doors Down

Beyond the boundaries of your city's lights,
Stand the heroes waiting for your cries.
So many times you did not bring this on yourself,
When that moment finally comes,
I'll be there to help.

On that day when you need your brothers and sisters to care,
I'll be right here.
Citizen soldiers holding the light for the ones that we guide from the dark of despair.
Standing on guard for the ones that we sheltered,
We'll always be ready because we will always be there.

When there are people crying in the streets,
When they're starving for a meal to eat,
When they simply need a place to make their beds,
Right here underneath my wing,
You can rest your head.

On that day when you need your brothers and sisters to care,
I'll be right here!
Citizen soldiers holding the light for the ones that we guide from the dark of despair.
Standing on guard for the ones that we sheltered,
We'll always be ready because we will always be there...

There... there... there...

Hope and pray that you'll never need me,
But rest assured I will not let you down.
I'll walk beside you but you may not see me,
The strongest among you may not wear a crown.

On that day when you need your brothers and sisters to care,
I'll be right here!
On that day when you don't have the strength for the burden you bear,
I'll be right here!

Citizen soldiers holding the light for the ones that we guide from the dark of despair.
Standing on guard for the ones that we sheltered,
We'll always be ready because we will always be there.

If Everyone Cared

Nickelback

From underneath the trees, we watch the sky
Confusing stars for satellites
I never dreamed that you'd be mine
But here we are, we're here tonight

Singing Amen, I'm alive
Singing Amen, I'm alive

If everyone cared and nobody cried
If everyone loved and nobody lied
If everyone shared and swallowed their pride

We'd see the day when nobody died
And I'm singing

Amen I, I'm alive
Amen I, I'm alive

And in the air the fireflies
Our only light in paradise
We'll show the world they were wrong
And teach them all to sing along

Singing Amen I'm alive
Singing Amen I'm alive

If everyone cared and nobody cried
If everyone loved and nobody lied
If everyone shared and swallowed their pride
We'd see the day when nobody died
If everyone cared and nobody cried
If everyone loved and nobody lied
If everyone shared and swallowed their pride
We'd see the day when nobody died

And as we lie beneath the stars
We realize how small we are
If they could love like you and me
Imagine what the world could be

If everyone cared and nobody cried
If everyone loved and nobody lied
If everyone shared and swallowed their pride
We'd see the day when nobody died
We'd see the day, we'd see the day
When nobody died
We'd see the day, we'd see the day
When nobody died
We'd see the day when nobody died

Learn Self Defense... It may save your life!

Giving the gift of safety

We've all been there; in a situation that makes you feel just a little bit uneasy. Sometimes it's walking to your front door at night — darkness can play some scary tricks on you. Other times it's in bright daylight, when that stranger walking toward you gives you an unwarranted stare that throws your sense of comfort a little out of whack.

Well, "About Us" is really about you. It's all about your education, safety and peace of mind; things that every young girl and woman should have and hold dearly. T.A.K.E. Defense Training provides girls and women of all ages with unique reality-based, hands-on self-defense training. Such training provides safety awareness that everyone needs and deserves.

Your T.A.K.E. training, an integral element in the comprehensive safety awareness program, will take place in a two-hour session held at various facilities. When you attend a class, you'll receive priceless awareness education and practical application of the skills demonstrated and learned in the session. It's our goal to give you the advantage if you're ever in a situation that makes you question your safety.

When you participate in the program, a Student Handbook for convenient reference will be available. In the handbook, you'll see descriptions of the reality-based training, self-protection tips for your personal safety and pictures of the skills you learned in the training session.

So whether you're in search of that advantage to feel in control of everyday situations, or you want to make sure a bad experience is never repeated, take part in T.A.K.E Defense Training.

Power: You have it in you.
The Ali Kemp Educational Foundation

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